Chapter 1135: Her Life Needs a Sense of Ritual
Chapter 1135: Her Life Needs a Sense of Ritual
Helian Xi felt even more stifled, "There’s a date on this. What do you think his intentions are?"It’s not that Helian Xi didn’t truly want it, but she did feel somewhat uncomfortable inside.
"So, you’re still unhappy." Lu Xingzhi didn’t quite know what to say.
Such matters, she naturally found it difficult to counsel her on.
She felt really conflicted too.
"The key is, Gu Jin Yan is clearly putting me in a difficult position while pretending to be the one in a tough spot. Initially, he was hesitant to speak, but later, he told me, wanting me to choose for myself. Yet his expression was still urging me to agree. The Gu Family is clearly employing moral coercion."
Helian Xi was almost crying with anger.
She knew she was being a bit dramatic.
But it’s a once-in-a-lifetime wedding, and she naturally wants it to be beautiful.
"If you were in my shoes, Little Zhi Liao, what would you choose?" Helian Xi asked.
"I naturally would agree. I’m not compromising, but how should I say this? I don’t place as much importance on the wedding as you do. I wish Grandpa a long life, but I know if that day ever comes, he wouldn’t make such a request."
The Huo Family and Gu Family are different.
People are different too.
She and Helian Xi are also different.
Helian Xi emphasizes the sense of ceremony, she cares about such things, and if not done satisfactorily, it could become a trigger for marriage conflicts.
In the long run, it might become a psychological burden for her.
If things go wrong, it could lead to depression.
"Then I should agree too, right! Actually, I do agree. I’m not forcing myself, just feeling a little bit unhappy. And you know, I’m still studying. I haven’t graduated yet."
Helian Xi lay on the table without any image, "Little Zhi Liao, I just don’t like the attitude of the Gu Family. I hate the way Gu Jin Yan’s tone feels like coercion. You know, if they were more forceful, I could certainly be forceful too. But their tone is so gentle, even kind of low and pleading."
"Hmm. I understand now." The knot is likely at Gu Jin Yan.
Lu Xingzhi pursed her lips, "If your husband’s grandmother just wants him to be the groom, you could separately have her wear the wedding attire."
"But they’ve already sent out the invitations, right!" Helian Xi felt even more dejected.
"Look, I haven’t been proposed to, just got the certificate, and likewise without a proposal, now I’m to have a wedding." Helian Xi was in a bad mood and could only say these things to Lu Xingzhi.
Such matters are difficult to discuss with family.
"Perhaps in the eyes of the older generation, only a formal wedding counts as marriage!" Lu Xingzhi could only comfort Helian Xi in this way.
"But, in Gu Jin Yan’s eyes?" Helian Xi’s gaze dimmed, lacking the vibrancy she usually had.
"You said he loves you. But sometimes, the word ’filial piety’ can truly overwhelm a family. For me, three months is enough time to complete a satisfactory wedding. Xixi, if you want to complete this wedding, then do it your way!"
If it were her, Lu Xingzhi felt the Huo Family wouldn’t do such a thing.
If it happened, she wouldn’t need them to ask, she’d stand up willingly.
"Little Zhi Liao, do you think it’s really my problem?"
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